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Originally Posted by downandlonely
You are really overthinking this. It sounds like you already are developing a friendship. Don't stress too much about what might happen in the future. If he didn't want to keep in touch, he wouldn't have asked for your number.
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I may have not explained myself well. I asked him if he had my phone number, he didn't and told me he would ask my mentor for it. He could have asked me it if he really wanted it. But like I said, there are many reasons he hasn't done so yet...
But thanks for cheering me up and advising me. I'm aware about the importance of our last conversation and I appreciate it. I'm honestly trying to do everything possible not to get obsessed. I'm trying to read, play some video game, watch the TV, listen to music... but nothing works.
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Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky
It doesn't hurt asking him his Phone Number again, doesn't it? I am sure he just hasn't had the chance since he's been sick! He's enjoyed the conversation you've had with Him so I see no reason why he shouldn't want to talk with you some more. Give it a try and don't overthing it too much! I am sure he cares!  I am sure he cares A LOT AS WELL! Thank you for updating us and I hope you'll continue to do that! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @ Franner, your Family, your Friends, this Friend of Yours, your Mentors and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK, MY BEAUTIFUL, CARING, INTELLIGENT, SENSIBLE, BRAVE, DETERMINED, DEAR, AWESOME, KIND, SWEET, WISE, RESOURCEFUL, SMART, GENEROUS, SENSITIVE, GENTLE AND WONDERFUL FRIEND?!      |
Hey, thanks for the encouragement, MickeyCheeky. I don't know. What if he didn't want to give me his phone in the first place?
You see, what makes me doubt it is the fact that while we were in his car he could have given me his number. That's why I say I should have to him to give me his...
This tendency of mine to overthink makes me feel anxious, and this anxiety makes me overthink about it. Sounds crazy, but it's how I actually feel. I have a very strong fear of being rejected. In fact, my first thread in this forum was about something similar and
it didn't end well: Is it appropriate to send a message to a stranger who doesn't reply me?