ty so much for relating to me with that. it's always been a very very blurred line for me. wanting to break contact....then feeling so sorry for her...then being her mother....all while taking her crap. it's so difficult.

thank you for posting that. it's very true. it's something t and i have spent 2nd most time on. she's a bottomless pit. t has finally helped me to see that i can never make her feel better...ever. it just leaves me drained while all my emotions pour straight thru her...none sticking around. it's very hard.

ty again for the post and the relation...i'm sorry you can relate tho.

kd