Well, actually LonelyMan, that particular movie I pointed out is not only sexually graffic, but the woman in this movie does play around with people's minds. However, that movie is rated and warns it has sexual content etc.

What the OP's husband chose to do however, is he assumes other males are like him when that is simply not the case, never just assume anything about other people. Also, what her husband wanted her to do is "use" this guy without his conscent. So this friend was put in a position where he was part of her husband's game not even knowing it was a game. The OP did not just agree to expose herself that nite, but to also expose herself to a guy that had no idea he was being "played" or actually "used" for her husband's thrill.

I appreciate your input, and do hope the OP appreciates it as well. You are proof that this isn't something YOU as a man would care to be involved in. Yes, her husband needs to take responsiblity for his fetish which he did not choose to do. And even when he asks her to expose herself more when they go out, he is still not considering how there are other people that may find that uncomfortable.

That being said, today a lot of people do put themselves out there in all kinds of ways. The OP's generation tends to be encouraged to be very forward and out there. It's wise of the OP to stop and say, "hey wait a minute, it this ok?". Well, just because someone wants you to do something doesn't mean you should, and it's always wise to sit and really consider the consequences.