Those Old old lying traps
''not being good enough'' and any number of variations on that one. I have been told by many ''intelligent'' and ''experienced'' people that my opinions are valuable and worthwhile.... but I have still hesitated to participate and eventually been shut out because of that. Like that 4 year old cub,
and like that **** year old who was thrown out of the house of the parental units - permanently for Daring To Talk...… what a terrible wrong thing to do, my gosh
''my but they learn so slow'' … but even the ''slow'' cub who actually has the ****ing intelligence to ''achieve'' an Honours Degree does learn... eventually.. mostly through the ghastly School of Hard Knocks which was forced on me. And as I said elsewhere, I have recently discovered I am an ''oral receptive type'' which doesn't make me the slightest bit happy

Disclaimer. I do not wish to receive any replies about how someone ''asked'' their ''abusive'' ''son'' to leave or anything like that. And how much they were suffering and how much better they feel having rid themselves of that ''emotional drain''..
1. I was never abusive
2. I am female.

Also I do not find replies saying things like ''move on'' in the slightest bit helpful. That is the type of ''advice'' offered locally (irl) and like most here I do not post for prescriptive advice that most of average intelligence who have been online for more than a year have Heard and Absorbed Multiple Times.


Thank you

Respect to all