I am really confused on why is it a problem that he is not as good looking as you. I don’t think it’s a requirement for both people being equally good (or bad) looking. If you aren’t attracted to him, then of course don’t date him

If you are looking for a stable boyfriend, I suggest you refrain from sex on the first few dates and certainly not on a first date. Men who are on a look out for a serious relationship will not have sex with a stranger. Look for a man who will date you until he gets to know you, which definitely is more than few dates. That’s how you weed out the ones who just want casual sex.

I am not sure about pof. I think it’s most a hook up site. Mostly for young people looking for casual encounters. Maybe that’s changed