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i'm sorry. the mother here is the victim if it rains. it's a diabolacle (sp?) scheme against her. i am to her what i can do for her. i've known that my entire life. there are children inside still longing for the attn and love they never got from her. they don't understand they never will. i have finally learned that tho. t is amazed that i have the power to not allow her to cross into my emotional sphere anymore. he doesn't know how i do it. i don't think i deal with the mother...i stand back and listen. we rarely see the mother face to face...moreso tho now since dropping of the little man there for visits.

i'm sorry that you were raised by such a mother as well.

kd