Re an earlier check in thread, I let the person who had ghosted me know how I felt.. probably not in the “best” way but I’m not sure what is a “good” way in those sorts of situations. I am “sensitive” but not “hyper hyper Sensitive” to the tiniest slights (real or imagined)... I always prefer to repair relationships if at all possible than to simply shun people and/or be mean to them or gossip about them behind their backs... I really dislike gossip. And I hate being mean and “petty”. probably as I have been the recipient of this sort of behaviour far too many times which is partly why I am so tired. I wasn’t one of the popular cubs at school and there was always someone who loved to rub my nose in that. Why, I don’t know . TMI probably. I don’t know why it bothers me when “not everyone likes me” - in fact the person in question (not here) may not dislike me, I could have been wrong in this case. I am ALWAYS happy if I have mistakenly judged someone as “not nice” and they turn out to be well intentioned. Hugs and respect to all Stressed stressed stressed. I feel sorry for papa bear, he had a nightmare last night . I blame myself