SpazKatt said something very interesting a few replies back. - "I think I stink. Everyone else thinks I'm awsome." ......

I think she is sincere in saying she's well liked and for good reason. She also implies, however, that she doesn't like herself. I don't understand why you think you "stink", SpazKatt but I thought I'd use this as an example to others how this contradicts the saying that "you have to accept yourself before others will." SpazKatt, you also happen to be a beautiful looking woman. Again, I hope you don't mind me pointing this out. The reason I say this is because it debunks the notion that "others will only perceive you the way you perceive yourself". Why? ... Objective beauty is very important.