@Open Eyes This is what has happened. I notice how little confidence I have. I notice how I am afraid to do anything without him right beside me, for fear that I'll do it wrong and anger him. I cannot read his mind, so even though he tells me that he wants "x", I do that, and then he's angry because he changed his mind and now wants "y". He also claims that he never told me that he wanted "x" (he did tell me that), he was just using that as an example and I'm stupid for thinking otherwise.