I think it was already stated above. But I agree. If he isn't meeting your needs and wishes, then it's hard to change someone or force things that are not natural to someone. If you don't feel listened to or asked any questions about your work, something you are passionate about, then why stay in the relationship? One's needs will not be 100% met by one single person, but the basics of what you need should be there. Otherwise, you're trying to change someone and that never works.