There's a guy I've gone on 3 dates with. I like him so I asked some questions like would he ever marry again, and if his kids know he's dating. Too soon to answer but basically got a no to both. Now before giving him my heart he was winning, I'm pulling back. Because his kids are adults they should know he's dating. I'm like a big secret, and I don't want to be some fling for him. And put my heart on the line.

I'm a future planner, and I could see a future with him but doesn't sound like he feels the same way. So do I drop him? Or wait and hope he changes his mind?