I was scammed too. Police told me it’s very common and happens to the best of them. It happens to people when they vulnerable. Scammers pray on people in vulnerable situations. Make sure police is involved. It will be hard to prove anything or find the person but at least there is a record of it. Talk to your cards, you might not be liable for new debt as it wasn’t you who used the cards

I see it’s old thread, don’t know why it popped up as new post