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Old Dec 23, 2019, 12:11 PM
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Originally Posted by Thunder Bow View Post
Forget the what ifs. Can't worry about them until they happen. Then deal with them. They just mirror common anxiety.
This sort of toxic positivity is not very helpful for anyone with an anxiety disorder. They cant just ignore the things that give them anxiety. And to dismiss them so, well, dismissively can be quite invalidating. Usually what's more helpful is to listen to what is bothering to the person and help them reframe it.

To the OP, do you want to tell us a little more of what is bothering you?
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.

Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien

Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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