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Originally Posted by LilyMop
This is me exactly. People take advantage of me and they let other slide. It’s lazy management: it’s just easier to push the ones you can push and ignore the ones who won’t do the work. I keep wanting to find another job but I know the problem truly lies with me because if I don’t learn to set better boundaries I’ll always find myself in this same situation.
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Oh my goodness.. this is SO TRUE. I’m taken advantage of too because I work hard and am too nice. I’m working on setting limits and boundaries and vowed to myself to stop being a pushover. I know it’s in my hands as well. I’m helping out the other team over Christmas but that’s it. They need someone else to take over this task and I’m going to tell them this in a diplomatic way. Hugs to you!