his kids are adults. not 12 yr olds. not a big deal.

and if I walked around and only looked at relationships are marriage potential, well I would be missing out on knowing some great people. why not ask people on the fist date: will you marry me? no, then sorry I have to leave, you won't commit.

I like relationships that develop over time...you learn about each other and eventually decide if it is one that can stand the test of time, maybe you never marry but just stay really close deep friends.

do you place a date limit on getting answers? I mean at 3 you are placing limits already.