My bf says he feels okay but something is wrong. I had to turn his oxygen up to 8 liters/minute. That's a lot! We should be over at the ER. If it weren't 2 days ti Christmas, I'ld force him. But he says he has no pain and feels okay and absolutely does not want to go to the hospital. I'm going along with him because I'm afraid it will be too emotionally devastating for him to be dragged from home tonight. He was admitted 4 or 5 times in 2019, plus a couple other trips to the ER. He's a dying man. I know that. He knows that. There comes a point where treatment becomes worse than the disease. I'm not sure we're there yet. He seems to think he is. I have to give some weight to his perception and to his preferences.

His cough sounds awful. But he seems content here at home. So, maybe, this is where he needs to stay.