just have to vent again. i talked to a friend of mine that i am really close to (or was) in high school. i knew i shouldnt have because (no offense--she is very religious and i am not). pretty much her response was to say that i was selfish for not telling my friends and that i had no right to feel the way i do. i dont know right now....i feel even more depressed and angry after this as well as ashamed. should i feel this way? was she right? please help.