Candy, sometimes all the little stuff that we have been putting up with builds up and gets to us. Things like staying out so late at a school board meeting, or people doing things that bug you. It could be anything, and you might not even be aware that it's bothering you. You have been saying something about some of the things that you don't like though, and stating your preferences and expectations, and I think that is exactly what will help you to deal with it constructively.