I read all of these posts and I know how you feel. I think that you love your daughter, but hate the person she is! I have a 41 year old daughter who has used people, especially me, all her life, and I have drawn the line. She will not speak to me right now, but will have to get over it. She has never held down a full time job all these years, decided to go to college, and will be very surprised at the end when she is working to pay all these bills off. We'll see how it goes. Good luck and hang in there!!