Thank you so much for your thoughtful responses.
Sometimes I am in a situation where I just don't know what the best thing to do is. I'll give an example.
I have made it my rule for the most part not to have contact with my friend if she has been drinking. Sometimes I am with her when she is about to drink or just started to drink. This just happened a few days ago. I was seeing 2 options, either tell her what a bad idea it was or just walk away. I ended up walking away, but I don't know if I made the best choice. I felt I would be unsuccessful in stopping her and would just get frustrated.
I want to be supportive but not drive myself nuts at the same time. What do you guys think?
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