Oh, man. I have a similar thing. I joined some sites, but basically all I found was women who wanted sex and not much else, and that's not really of interest to me. So, I un-joined them all. I still get these crazy texts from these gals, but I just delete them. I never realized how many uh, lonely, uh, women there were.

I try to distract myself with other activities now. I read, I work on PC, I write, I watch a show or two that I like, I go for a walk. I just do other things and it gets me through. I've given up on ever having another relationship. Who would want to be with someone who has been through what I have?