I remember after being with my future husband for several months (and living with him for a while), we were walking through a forest chatting about this and that. He stated that he thinks husbands and wives should have their own bedrooms in a house. I was like "What?!?!" He gave his silly reason, and I just shook my head in amused disbelief. Then that night, I told him that I would spend the night in the spare room. He was like "No, no, no, no, NO!"

I said, "Well, I thought you liked the idea of separate rooms?" In response, he said he changed his mind. We've been married for over 20 years and never slept in separate rooms.

People just say stuff sometimes, but don't necessarily mean it in stone. Three dates is nothing. Almost nobody falls in love after only three dates, and yes, a person asking about marriage so prematurely would make many people feel uncomfortable and sort of "rebel" and say "No." He might have said the same if you asked him if he wanting to have more children.

It seems like you're already sounding like a difficult girlfriend for him. I suggest you reevaluate your approach to dating, unless you are very desperate to remarry quickly. If the latter is the case, then you might want to search dating sites for men that write "Looking for a potential wife". Believe me that there are some such men out there. However, they may not be what you are ultimately looking for. Or are you? If so, you may want to obtain that info before even the first date. That would spare anyone the restaurant bill.