I agree with the above, there are some people who find the most ridiculous reasons to dislike someone. I have certainly had ''family'' members who have completely blown me off, I think in their case it was more their disease than mine... but mine may have also factored into it. But I was not the cause of their Lack of Care or Compassion. I hope you find some more compassionate people too, as you've found there are many who care and don't blow someone off for some bs reason or utter selfishness (and often a manipulative agenda too ) here on pc.