Sometimes both, but I do try to generally post with thought put into it. Sometimes a "generic" comment still have love behind it. I think I have empathy for others....although sometimes I probably project my own feelings and experiences into what I say making it kinda selfish, in a way, maybe. I dunno. Give and take kindof thing. Respond to the post then get personal. Since I'm the first one to reply here, I'm not sure what I just started. Lol