I was going to respond to this yesterday, but somehow forgot too.
I don't think everyone can be helped. it's not always a case of people wanting the help or not, sometimes it's a case of what resources their are at this person's disposal, what the underlying issue is and what the person in question is willing to sacrifice to get the helpp

their might be lots of help out their for various disorders, but their's always going to be 1 or 2 people left behind.

and I don't delete my posts. their are posts I never read replies too, but I don't delete them