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Old Dec 27, 2019, 06:00 PM
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Originally Posted by pandabear0927 View Post
But thats what i mean i dont know how to suggest that without coming off as rude or crazy... i dont want to be “babied” by people but idk... i also feel like thats not a normal thing for parents to do???? None of my exes organized a family reunion everytime we visited? That seems really foreign to me..
I really feel like this is something your partner should communicate to your in laws. They should just tell them the invite is for them only. Please no kids or grandkids this time. It's really not too much to ask or unreasonable for you to say you cant handle a big group but would love to have just them over. And it's not even an anxiety thing, imo.
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Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.

Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien

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