I think its ok to be ''selfish'' every once in a while too. I think that is one of the reasons so many are ''silenced'' in this forest in real life, not only are they labelled with unsavoury and wrong labels, treated as if they are unintelligent when they have a Degree and they are also made to feel guilty for taking up any time.. such as 10 minutes freakin insane So many many do eventually ''give up on the system'' which has repeatedly harmed them