I would look for counseling. It helps to have someone who is experienced to help you along the way. You aren't alone. I also have bulimia. With counseling and meds (Prozac), I've been able to cut down on my episodes. Most jobs should have a confidentiality agreement when it comes to health insurance. Get the details so you know where you stand. Ask who can see your records. It may be more safe than you think.
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