Whoa. Be very careful!!! Someone who claims love after 3 dates is seriously rushing things. Soulmates? You hardly know each other. Why the hurry?? What’s going on here? Yes enjoy each other but to declare love this soon is a HUGE red flag. And if you disagree on so many things? You hardly know whether you’re truly compatible. Healthy love takes more time than 3 dates. This is very concerning. I would back way off from emotional ties and just observe and reflect... slow down. It is not healthy and those types of hurried relationships always blow up in disaster. This is not going to end well I’m afraid.