I don't think it's so much about you having a baby. It's more about how this woman tends to push herself or what she considers important on others that's the problem. Even her gift was about herself pushing at you and that's not being thoughtful and respectful. Your decision to have a child needs to be YOUR decision, not someone else's. It's not her place to tell you how to live your life and that's what she has been doing that turns you off about her. It's her personality type that rubs you the wrong way.