That is a great place to start Sunny. He has met my son and thought my recent concerns about him not being 'normal' were silly. He said before I left 'he's normal, you're just worrying and obsessing over his problems'. I don't disagree with this statement.

Yes, my T knows how to communicate better but unfortunately, I am so freaking sensitive that I can see him doing this. If he is though, it is having the opposite reaction. It is making me more nuts as I try to fill in the blanks myself (always a bad idea!).

When I have asked him to tell me something like it is, I often get more upset and obsess more. I guess he can't win? I'm doing a lot of assuming here.

This person he recommended has extensive experience with children from infant age to adolescence. But you're right why one that specializes in issues my son doesn't have?

It's making me crazy because on one hand he said he doesn't think I need to talk about my issues and on the other, going to her with my son would be entering my issues...eventually anyway.

Makes me think he is trying to get rid of me...again. I hate this cycle that I am in. Hate it!