3 dates does not equal a relationship Aviza. I'm sorry but it doesn't.

Try not to future-talk with any man you go on dates with. That will always scare them away.

3 dates is not enough time to ask such personal questions of your dates if they want to marry or if they tell their adult children they are dating.

Just try to relax and enjoy yourself. Try not to put ALL the work in to getting to know the man. Let him ask you out. Let him take the lead.