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Old Dec 29, 2019, 11:35 AM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
Yes she is wrong for me. And we have differing ideas and approaches. I do see her approach as passive. You don’t know her like I do. She’s very meek and mousy. It doesn’t matter that she got a masters degree. I need someone on board with teaching me how to be assertive and she is not the person. And she’s the type of woman who would just accept a lower salary than a man for the same position. That is not me. I would fight for it to gain the same salary. So no, she’s not a feminist.

As far as past supervisors? You almost offend me with your statement. I will correct you there. I have not had trouble with supervisors. I’ve been abused and bullied by a few. There’s a HUGE difference.

I am also very diplomatic in all my relations. Always. And I’m the most positive and enthusiastic on my whole team. My boss can’t stand me because I shine at work and because I have ethics he does not have. I cannot help who I am, but it Is erroneous and offensive to imply I am not diplomatic. My CEO loves me, and he’s the one who truly matters.
I don’t mean to offend you. Looks like I am wrong about your t

Maybe it’s a different therapist. I thought the one you had before wanted you to take charge and be assertive and stand up for yourself while you wanted her to be more warm and fuzzy. It sounds like this one is the opposite, maybe it’s a different one. She doesn’t want you to be more assertive in the manner you wanted to. Have you tried posting on therapy sub forum? They sometimes have good ideas. I often don't agree with my t.

Have you applied for promotion?
Thanks for this!
Have Hope