Hi, Paper.

I've had a quick look, and I think if you click on Senior's Lounge # 2 and look at the fu
first few posts, they're definitely from today or yesterday.

Not the one by Doc John. He's the owner, so he and the mods set things up by putting so-called 'stickies' at the top of each form (permanent, useful info).

Below, you'll see threads and posts by people like TravellingLady. Click on the last page of these, otherwise you'll be looking at really old messages!

Otherwise, you might want to consider the Healthy Parenting forum. Many of the threads involve grown-up children.

I have similar issues, possibly, to you (we're all, of course, very wary about hazarding diagnoses for others) in that I had childhood abuse, leading to anxiety and depression. So, I tend to post in Depression or CPTSD.

But, honestly, I don't think it matters where you post.

Or, you can message any of the mods listed at the bottom of each forum. They might not have posted recently (they only do that if there's a good, moderation-related reason to), but at least one will always be on call.