Honestly if you believe in sanctity of marriage then how is it possible you were married 3 times? I’d focus on finding better quality men rather than actual marriage demands.

Nothing wrong with not having sex before marriage. When you meet a man don’t have sex until you are on your way to commitment, engaged etc just date him. No need to have sex right away.

You think men could walk away if they aren’t married. But if you were married 3 times it means they walk away or you did despite being married. Marriage license doesn’t stop people from walking away and marriage from ending or partners from being abusive

I feel like you focus on technicality of having official piece of paper instead of on quality of your relationships and life in general