My adult son is livid and has accused me of not respecting him, of being a ****** mother and unsupportive. He's a recovering alcoholic and I did bring wine to his house (for me). I have apologized for this. I bought the house and put his name on the title so he would avoid probate. I pay the mortgage. He's moved in, labeled it his home and for 7 months refused to let me stay there. I was there at Xmas. He accused me of ignoring him. ( he was working). He says I talk about him behind his back (I do tell people he wont let me stay in my house and laugh) disparagingly. I have promised I won't do this again. He wants me to go into counseling to face "hard truths" (?) and then I can talk to him. What should I do?