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My T shares quite a lot with me in part because it is consistent with the type of therapy he does but also because we have discovered that it really helps my work with him. I have had some more “blank slate” type T’s but did not work as well with them. I DO have lots of experience with my good friend Google though!
If you Google T3 you will find her FB page, tons of professional accolades, very positive reviews, a nice home, fairly well off lifestyle with lots of travel, she is athletic and drop dead beautiful and has a very attractive daughter... lots to be jealous of... or so it would seem. We need to remember Google searches are one sided, they are not the whole picture. Sources more complete than Google let me know that she went through a super ugly divorce. I remember seeing her with her daughter and how insanely cold she could be to her when she was a child. I know she is very afraid in the neighborhood her office is in. I know she has a nice house (with a huge mortgage) but drives a crappy, unreliable beater van because she wants the house and travel. Yes, I was jealous of her daughter for a bit until I saw them together... then I was appalled. I was jealous of her house (before the divorce) until I looked up the mortgage and the taxes on it and thought of all the other things she could do with that money.
Also, if it is on the internet my experience is that, at least if they are smart, they know a certain percentage of their clients will find it.
My current T has virtually no web presence other than his professional page. I had to cross over into heavier stalking to find out about him... but now he has told me more than what I thought was the google jackpot. Even worse he will answer just about anything I ask him. Today instead of sharing what a lovely holiday he had with his kids and grand kids I heard how his daughters dog puked at Christmas! I get that “full picture” kind of experience. Yeh, it looks all perfect on the outside but they are human, they have quirks, they have dogs puking in the middle of Christmas dinner on white carpet... who has white carpet!?!?!?
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There’s been many a crooked path
that has landed me here
Tired, broken and wearing rags
Wild eyed with fear
-Blackmoores Night
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