Welcome to PC.

Who did you initially buy the house for? Him or you? If you bought it for you then why does he consider it is his house? I am sorry, I dont know you or your son. Sounds like he is being a bully using his rage to control you.

Do you want counselling? If you do tell him that you will go if he goes. Making some boundaries in these sessions and revealing what the truths is might be very hard but it may also help you both to move forward.