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Old Dec 31, 2019, 12:08 PM
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Well, I certainly know how that can be difficult as my husband has done that with me too where he has left things out and you are correct in that the truth does eventually come out. That being said, unfortunately a lot of people do that where they omit certain things and we sure see a lot of that taking place in the political world right now. And it doesn't even matter which political party either, both practice this type of behavior. It's very human to hold back things we are not proud of doing in our lives or simply in our effort to keep our privacy.
Well, it concerns me that he's done this. I suppose though, in response to your comment, there's things I haven't told my husband about simply because I don't feel he needs to know.

BUT, since he wants me to fully trust him and given my own trust issues in general, I've told him he cannot hold back any important details that I may need to know. He hasn't done this in a while (or as far as I am aware), but I still struggle with trust.

I am trying to switch therapists, so I really don't have one to speak with about it.
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