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Originally Posted by divine1966
Oh no. Situation with credit card is bad. I’d consider it the same as stealing unless charging extra was discussed or it was an emergency and you were immediately informed. This one is not your trust issue. That’s an issue of “who he is a person” issue. Like who thinks it’s ok to do stuff like that?
I see now that you probably feel “if he lies about this, what else he lies about”
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Yes, that's it exactly @
divine1966. IF he can hide that from me, what ELSE would he hide from me? Is exactly my thought process. It wasn't an emergency and it wasn't discussed. He simply used it again without asking. Very presumptuous on his part. He paid me back in full, of course, but that wasn't the issue. The issue is honesty and trust. And when I found out, he said he had been afraid to tell me he used it again.
But yes, this on top of keeping other important information from me has been chipping away at my trust with him.