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Old Dec 31, 2019, 03:42 PM
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That did happen several months ago, and we've had conversations about trust. I've told him that omitting important details do not allow me to fully trust him, and that it diminishes my trust in him. We've talked it all out, but still I worry..... anxiety is one of my biggest issues. Going back to my original post, my fears and anxieties get the best of me, and I don't know how to manage that when it comes to fully trusting my husband. I know he loves me, he shows me everyday that he does. Somehow, I have to believe in it more. But these little incidents of omission & lack of disclosure are all in the back of my mind, and I cannot get rid of the feeling that he may lie to me and cheat on me one day.
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