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Originally Posted by Aviza
There's a guy I've gone on 3 dates with. I like him so I asked some questions like would he ever marry again, and if his kids know he's dating. Too soon to answer but basically got a no to both. Now before giving him my heart he was winning, I'm pulling back. Because his kids are adults they should know he's dating. I'm like a big secret, and I don't want to be some fling for him. And put my heart on the line.
I'm a future planner, and I could see a future with him but doesn't sound like he feels the same way. So do I drop him? Or wait and hope he changes his mind?
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After 3 dates most people would think it's too soon to be even talking about marriage. I think tbh I'd be a bit taken aback by any questions regarding that after a few dates.
My kids are adults too. To be honest because of this, my dating situation is none of their business in the first place and they never NEED to know. As their father, of course, I wouldn't keep it from them, but I mean it is neither something they have a say in nor should it affect their lives as adults. Definitely not something I feel compelled to keep them in the loop of with people that I date a couple or a few times. Only at such point as it became something of a relationship would I feel that it was worth sharing.