Today he text me happy new year in the afternoon in case the "network goes down". Why would the network go down for him no more than anyone else? The real reason is he will be with his family and does not want to be disturbed later. I will not disturb him

It reminds me of time in the summer when i would test. If he did not want to be disturbed he would say "enjoying the sun see you next week" Very dismissive. His ex told me the same thing.If she text late at night he did not want to know

But if he wants anything like being driven to deliver gifts on day before xmas eve it does not matter if i am put out. i will be staying away from him and his- coffee- when- he does- not--want -to - be - home - alone in 2020