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Originally Posted by divine1966
You don’t go to a bakery to buy vegetables. They aren’t selling them and it would be silly to demand or expect they sell you what they can’t possibly have in stock.
By the same logic you don’t go to selfish, uncommitted and unavailable mean addict (or insert any other undesirable qualities in partners) for devotion, love and attention (or what else you want from a partner).
They don’t have it to give so why waste time demanding they give you something what they do not possess to give you.
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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
I agree in that lonliness can be one thing that can make a person vulnerable to accepting the wrong invitations.
Truth is ALL predators/toxic people practice singling out behavior patterns. They also use threats of "no one else will want you or help you or believe you" techniques. Toxic individuals will also look to recruit others to help them isolate their target. There are some that will play nice with others and appear charming and the "good guy" with others just so they can form their own "flying monkey team" when they need help in getting rid of whatever obstacles come between them and what they want too.
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Oh he does play the part well...I can always tell when he’s lying..he will go on talking about himself and trying to convince himself of the delusional fantasies he believes (wanting to succeed, be a millionaire, have kids, etc)