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Old Jan 01, 2020, 04:01 PM
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Originally Posted by StreetcarBlanche View Post
Oh sorry for misunderstanding your post. It makes sense now. You can't just have coffee with her. And yes, if your husband suggested flowers, and he knows the family member he's right.

So, did this event happen because of an argument you had with your husband? It's hard for me to follow, I apologize.

This sounds very stressful. I hope things settle down for you soon here and I hope you can reconnect with your husband so that any mistrust you have is removed.
Thanks, Blanche.

Yes..... and sorry for the confusion. I did something wrong, it hurt someone in his family, I angered my husband because of that, and we fought on new years eve.

And I have trust issues that I wrote about in the relationship forum. That's what's ruining my marriage.

Today we're OK. He seems better and less angry. I need to just shut my mouth from now on and keep my insecurities to myself. I let it all spill out, and that's my problem.

Grr. I am most frustrated and angry with myself. Right now I am hating myself and feel like the worst person.
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