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So it is 5:12 on New Years and he called.. at first I thought, well, if it is important he will leave a voice mail, but turns out I forgot to set up my voice mail box. Got a new phone a month ago. But he could text me OR facebook me... so I am guessing it is nothing important.
I have decided to stop talking to him. He allegedly has 30 or 40 "friends" who love him. So he can go see them if there is an issue.
I know it seems horrible but I really feel like this was the long game all along. I was the escape valve if the wife didn't work out. So now that I know that I feel little concern about blowing him off. I want him to understand that if he makes this same mistake again my door won't be open to him. In fact, I feel like he pretty much just ended our relationship. He is just the same 17 year old bully he was then who wants to sleep all day and do nothing. If that is his life choice, let it be in HIS apartment.
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