Thanks everyone for your support and input!

I did ask him to talk to me more when we’re just hanging out watching tv and cuddling. He plays this Star Wars game which is his hobby. I surf the web or come on the forums so it’s not like he’s the only one immersed in something else. But yes I’d say he is a bit addicted. I will try to bring it up again when it happens again. I would like more of his attention sometimes. Not always, but sometimes.

And yes I do feel like it’s my trust issue that’s causing problems. He hasn’t helped matters by not always being fully upfront. But I’m paranoid because of my past and that does cause problems and arguments. I don’t think he’s doing anything he shouldn’t be. He says he isn’t so I’m going to try and trust him at his word. At least from this point onwards. I have to. But I know it's going to be a struggle for me inwardly, at all times.

We’ve also talked about him needing to always be honest with me. So there’s that. He's agreed to be 100% upfront with me about everything. The credit card thing was several months ago, and that was the last time he wasn't upfront.