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Old Jan 01, 2020, 09:21 PM
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Originally Posted by BirdDancer View Post
That is just horrible what happened to you! I hope that that the abusive behavior has since stopped. If they did it to you, they've likely done it to others.

I know that the worst part of workplace or school abuse or bullying is that people have to be there during the majority of the best hours of the day. I remember getting home from extreme stress at work (not so much abuse, but severe stress) and drinking to self medicate.
Thank you, BridDancer. There is new leadership there. I am hopeful that the new generation has more insight into sort of the nature of humanity and that surgeons are not machines with no feelings or lives. And yes, I never had a substance issue until the end of my time there. That is where it all originated. Thank you so much for reaching out and sharing. It helps me a lot. I am somehow going to have to figure out how to slowly let this out. I am working on it.
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