You are doing absolutely everything right, @cashart10. I know you, yourself, feel like crap right now, but hopefully you both got a little sleep. Just keep doing what you are doing. Stay on it. Don't let him isolate, even if he wants to. And again, the ER is not the enemy (not saying you think it is). If you need to go, you need to go. Period. We've all been there.

Sending you prayers and support and calming brain waves for you both. You'll get through this.