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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Oh dear... your boss sounds almost crazy and is totally toxic! Do you have a therapist? Are you on anti anxiety meds? If not, perhaps some meds may help calm your nerves so you can think clearly?
Can you distance yourself emotionally from your boss to protect yourself? Do you have a separate working space from her where you can keep your distance? Headphones?
Can you look for another job?
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Thank you
she really is over the top. I care for her in a way, and I empathize with her anxious condition, but she has that mean streak.
It seems that she can come whipping into my office whenever. I feel like I have to be accessible to her. I don’t think that can change.
All I can think of is to respectfully respond to her with my thoughts. I don’t think she can be ignored. so I have to learn to be direct and confident with her when she’s in her mood. But carefully. Normally I fawn I think.
I have had lots of counseling in the past and I do miss it. No meds, afraid to do that.
A new job would be lovely.